I have been dealing with some strange goings on the last few weeks, as I have said in the past I am an extremely shy person, and when you mix in women who flirt with you it makes for some comical results. I prefer to be a person who does not stick out, almost like "wallpaper" I am there but not noticed. That is the way I like to be, if someone ever wanted my "15 minutes of fame" I would pay them to take it. First time I noticed I was being flirted with I was going in to pick up a pizza, I walked in, I have to walk by the bar to the pick up window, I noticed 3 women watching me, I felt very self conscious, I get to the window and the pizza order had just been put in the oven, so I had to go back by the women, I quickly walked out and went to sit in my car while I waited. 10-15 minutes later I had to go back in, I was nervous and dreading it almost, I went back in making sure my wedding ring was COMPLETELY visible, they watched every step I took, I just wanted to leave. I got my pizza, and headed out for the last time walking quickly, past them when one of them looked at me turned an said "Hi," I mumbled something and out the door I went, feeling the relief that it was over.
Then yesterday while I was at work, I was putting some merchandise up when a woman walked up to me and started talking to me, asking me about my hair of all things, when a friend of hers walked up to her, and said hi to her, she turned to her and said " Oh, you caught me flirting with him." Then she smiled at me, I quickly moved along, trying not to be rude, since she was a customer, and I was working. I walked away bright red, and felt grateful her friend came along. She circled a few times while she shopped and made sure she said hi to me. I am completely flattered by the attention, it makes me feel good that women have flirted with me, but I would rather be not noticed.
My wife thinks it is the funniest thing that these women were flirting with me, she says "they don't realize they are speaking to one of shiest people in the world." As I have said before my wife and I met at the right time, right place, I opened up to her right from the beginning, I KNEW she was the "one" the first time I met her, my shyness did not exist with her. I told her about these episodes for a good laugh, and I knew I could because we are so happily married, and we share all. I love her more than anything in this world, we have been together for nearly 13 years now, and I don't see anything ever separating us.
